I saw a stand-up comedy tonight with my friend Mandee. Kevin James is great. In television, James played Doug Heffernan on The King of Queens from 1998 to 2007 and received a Primetime Emmy Award for Outstanding Lead Actor in a Comedy Series. He was comical. The jokes were hilarious, and the content was real, descent not Rated R mambo-jumbo. I still can’t feel my cheeks from all the laughing. You know what they say: laugh to live.
It is all about choices that we make in life. Sometimes you will never know the value of a moment until it becomes a memory. Life is filled with memories. Every empty bottle is filled with memory, laughs, cries, sad and happiness. Every photograph keeps stuck in time a fragmented piece of our lives. Choices that we make follow us in diverse ways. Sometimes we must pause everything and really see our life in retrospective to decide which path to go moving forward. Choices that me make from the very simple one to the most life changing determines fate and path in life in every level.
Things that you assume as not significant deep down can change your life forever, not in a split of a second, not in a blink of an eye, it will take time until you really see the full results. It is absolutely certain that every corner you take in life it is for a reason, that you will see now or in a near future. For every question that you have, listen to you your soul and your gut. Make a choice. Your soul already knows, you just must be smart and brave enough to listen and act on it.
Make a choice and prioritize yourself. Stop thinking what it will happen tomorrow, in a next month from now, next year or next decade. Tomorrow it is not guaranteed. Today is the present. So, make a choice and focus on today; one day at a time, focus on the next 24 hours in front of you and make it work, make it worth it. Every choice you make, every step you take it gets you closer to where you want to be.
I get it. Some of us are afraid of changes. We question and analyze every little detail of what could get wrong, and sometimes we fail to think that if we don’t try, we will never know what it could go right. You will never win without trying, and you will never know that your next try might be a success one until you actually try it. So do it!!
Choice is a very powerful tool, we have. It is an absolute power in our hands. Look around, your life is filled with infinite possibilities, and every one of them has a door waiting for you to open and change the directions of your life, your path, your dreams, your goals. Just a simple choice holds the key to happiness or sadness. You can stay home and worry about a million things that didn’t go right or you can choose to go with your friend and see Keving James in a stand-up comedy and laugh until your cheeks are in pain. The choice is yours, your body, mind and heart. Act on it.
Beneath every feeling it is a reason for it, and beneath every reason it is a need. If we like it or not and try to push yourself in the denial stage is another story. So rather than focusing and wasting our time on the behavior lets deal with the cause and not the symptoms. That’s why you go to see a doctor, to find the roots of your problems not just take care of the symptoms right. Long term solution versus short term cover up makes it better quick alternative.
The choice is yours! You hold the key to your decision making, no one else does.
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